Ogulitsa amatha kutsata ndondomeko iliyonse yoyembekeza ndikubwera chimanjamanja ngati ayandikira mbali yovutayi yogulitsa ndi malingaliro olakwika.

Kuyembekezera, monga china chilichonse, kumatha kuwonedwa bwino kapena molakwika.

"Momwe timamvera tikayamba kuyembekezera zidzakhudza kupambana kwathu"."Muyenera kukhala ndi chikhulupiriro chakuti zomwe tikuchita ndikuthandiza anthu.Zilibe kanthu kuti ndi chiyani chomwe tikugulitsa.Chofunikira ndichakuti tikuthetsa kufunikira kwa chiyembekezo.Mukayamba kuganiza zongosewera manambala chabe, simungapambane.”

Zotsatira zanu zoyembekeza zimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro.Kutsimikiza, chipiriro, changu ndi malingaliro abwino ndizo maziko a chiyembekezo cha kupambana.

Chifukwa kufufuza ndi luso komanso sayansi, malingaliro olondola amatsogolera ku chiyembekezo chabwino - ndipo pamapeto pake kugulitsa kopindulitsa kwambiri.

Kwa atsogoleri, kulimbikitsa akatswiri ogulitsa malonda kuti "asunge zibwano zawo" kapena "kuyang'ana mbali ya dzuwa" - makamaka pambuyo pa kukanidwa - sikuthandiza pa kukhazikitsa maganizo abwino.

Izi ndi zomwe zimagwira ntchito kwa akatswiri ogulitsa:

• Zindikirani malire anu.Kodi mukukumbukira kangati pomwe munatsekeredwa m'magalimoto m'mawa uno?Kapena ndi anthu angati adakulowetsani?Kodi chinthu chimodzi chomwe sichinalawe bwino pa nkhomaliro chikhalabe m'maganizo mwanu?Kapenanso, kodi mukuganiza za zomwe zidakoma kwambiri?Anthu ena amaona ndi kuganizira zinthu zoipa.Kuzindikira kuti mumakonda kuganiza molakwika ndiko chinthu choyamba chimene mungachite kuti mukhale ndi maganizo abwino.
• Onjezani zopambana zanu.Anthu amakonda kuchepetsa kupambana kwawo (m'moyo ndi ntchito) chifukwa safuna kumveka ngati odzikuza.Mukufuna kusiya kudzitamandira chifukwa cha kupambana, koma osakwirira.Lankhulani za kupambana kamodzi, khama lomwe munaikamo ndi zomwe mwaphunzirapo.Kenako sungani mu sutikesi yanu yamalingaliro kuti muwunikenso pamene mukuyenera kukhala ndi malingaliro oyenera.
• Pezani malingaliro otakata.Pankhani yomanga ndi kukhala ndi malingaliro oyenera, ndinu kampani yomwe mumasunga.Mukakhala ndi a Debbie Downers - omwe amadandaula ndi chiyembekezo ndi zotsatira zake - malingaliro anu adzawonongeka.Ndipo ngati mutakhala ndi munthu wina - yemwe samawona cholakwika chilichonse - mutha kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika otetezeka.Khalani ndi anthu omwe ali ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana pa ntchito yanu ndi zolinga zanu.Nthawi zina mumayenera kukhala ndi malingaliro olakwika kuti mukwiyitse mtima wodzikuza - kapena mosemphanitsa.
• Yesetsani kuyamikira.Pamene muli othokoza chifukwa cha anthu, zinthu ndi zokumana nazo, zifotokozeni.Kuuza ena kuti ndinu oyamikira kumakuthandizani kupeza ulemu ndikupanga zochitika zabwino, zomwe mungathe kuzipempha kuti mukhalebe ndi maganizo abwino.

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