Osanenanso mawu ena kwa makasitomala mpaka mutawerenga izi: Ofufuza apeza zabwino kwambiri - komanso zoyipitsitsa - chilankhulo chogwiritsa ntchito ndi makasitomala.

Zachidziwikire, mawu ena omwe mumaganiza kuti ndi ofunikira kwa kasitomala amatha kukhala ochulukirachulukira.Kumbali ina, makasitomala amakonda kumva ena mwa mawu omwe mumakonda kunena.

"Tsopano zadziwikiratu ... kuti zina mwa zowona zomwe zimalemekezedwa pakapita nthawi zokhudzana ndi ntchito zamakasitomala zimalephera kutsata kuwunika kwasayansi," akutero ofufuza.“Ndipo si njira iliyonse yolankhulirana yomwe iyenera kukhala yangwiro;nthawi zina, kulakwitsa pang'ono kumabweretsa zotsatira zabwinopo kuposa kusalakwitsa.

Nenani zambiri, nenani zochepa

Izi ndi zomwe munganene - ndi zomwe muyenera kuzipewa:

Apatseni iwo "Ine."Mpaka pano, mwina mwaganiza kuti ndibwino kudzitcha nokha ngati gulu lothandizira makasitomala.Chifukwa chake mumanena zinthu monga, "Titha kukuthandizani," kapena "Tithana nazo."Koma ofufuza adapeza kuti makasitomala amawona kuti antchito omwe amagwiritsa ntchito "Ine," "ine" ndi "wanga" ambiri akugwira ntchito mwakufuna kwawo.Kampani ina idapeza kuti ikhoza kuwonjezera malonda ndi 7% posintha kuchoka ku "ife" kupita ku "I" muzochita zawo za imelo.

Gwiritsani ntchito mawu a makasitomala.Makasitomala amakhulupirira komanso amakonda anthu omwe amatsanzira chilankhulo chawo kuposa omwe samatero.Tikukamba za mawu enieni, nawonso.Mwachitsanzo, ngati kasitomala afunsa, "Kodi nsapato zanga zifika pano pofika Lachisanu?"Ogwira ntchito kutsogolo akufuna kunena kuti, "Inde, nsapato zanu zidzakhala zitafika Lachisanu," osati, "Inde, zidzaperekedwa mawa."Kusiyana pang'ono, koma kugwiritsa ntchito mawu enieni kumapanga mgwirizano womwe makasitomala amakonda.

Gwirizanitsani msanga.Ofufuza adatsimikizira zomwe mwina mumachita kale: Ndikofunikira kulumikizana - ndikugwiritsa ntchito mawu olimbikitsa ubale - mukamakambirana.Sonyezani kudera nkhaŵa ndi chifundo ndi mawu onga “chonde,” “pepani” ndi “zikomo.”Kugwirizana kwa chizindikiro, kumvetsera ndi kumvetsetsa ndi mawu monga "inde," "Chabwino" ndi "uh-huh."Koma pali gawo limodzi lodabwitsa pa kafukufukuyu: Osapitilira ndi mawu osamala, achifundo.Pamapeto pake makasitomala amafuna zotsatira, osati kungomvera chisoni.

Khalani otanganidwa.Makasitomala amafuna kuti antchito "ayang'anire" pazokambirana, ndipo mawu ogwira mtima amawathandiza kuzindikira kuti zikuchitika.Ofufuza amanena kuti ogwira ntchito akufuna kusintha kuchokera ku "mawu ogwirizanitsa" ndi "kuthetsa maverebu" monga, "tenga," "itani," "kuchita," "kukonza," "kulola" ndi "kuyika."Mawu amtunduwu amawonjezera kukhutira kwamakasitomala.

Nenani molunjika.Makasitomala amapeza antchito omwe amagwiritsa ntchito konkriti, chilankhulo china kukhala chothandiza kwambiri kuposa omwe amagwiritsa ntchito zilankhulo zachidule.Chinenero cha konkire chikuwonetsa kuti mumakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zomwe makasitomala amafuna.Mwachitsanzo, ogulitsa angafune kunena kuti, "malaya abuluu atali, khosi la ogwira ntchito" pa "malaya."

Pezani mfundo.Osachita mantha kuuza makasitomala zomwe ayenera kuchita.Ofufuza adapeza kuti anthu amakopeka kwambiri akamagwiritsa ntchito mawu otsimikizira kuti: "Ndikukulangizani kuti muyese B Model" kapena "Ndikupangira mzerewu wa zoyera."Sali okakamiza kugwiritsa ntchito zilankhulo zawo, monga "Ndimakonda kalembedwe kameneko" kapena "Ndimakonda mzere umenewo."Malingaliro achindunji amawonetsa chidaliro ndi ukatswiri womwe umasangalatsa makasitomala.

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