Ogulitsa ena amayang'ana zotuluka atangoganiza kuti "ayi" pakuyesa komaliza komaliza.Ena amadzitengera okha yankho loipa ndipo amakakamira kuti asinthe.Mwa kuyankhula kwina, amasintha kuchoka kukhala ogulitsa ogulitsa kukhala otsutsa otsimikiza, kukweza kukana kwa ziyembekezo.

Nawa malangizo asanu ndi awiri okuthandizani kuti malondawo abwererenso m'njira yoyenera:

1. Mvetserani mosamalakuti mupeze mafunso ndi nkhawa zonse zomwe zimalepheretsa chiyembekezo kuti "inde".Iwo amvetsera ulaliki wanu, ndipo tsopano akupanga ulaliki waung’ono poyankha.Apatseni mpata woti afotokoze maganizo awo.Angamve bwino pofotokozera malingaliro awo poyera - makamaka ngati akukhulupirira kuti mukumvetsera.Muphunzira zambiri za zomwe zimawalepheretsa kuchitapo kanthu mwachangu.
2. Afotokozereninso mafunso ndi nkhawa zawoasanayankhe.Mayembekezo sanena nthawi zonse zomwe akutanthauza.Kubwerezabwereza kumawathandiza kumva mawu awoawo.Nthaŵi zina, pamene oyembekezera amva chimene chikuwalepheretsa, angayankhe yekha nkhaŵa zawo.
3. Pezani mgwirizano.Mukavomerezana ndi chiyembekezo pa mbali zina za zotsutsa zake, mumapanga malo omwe mungavumbulutse malo omwe akugulitsa.Nkhani iliyonse yomwe mumakambirana mu gawo ili la malonda ikhoza kubweretsa chiyembekezo ku "inde".
4. Onetsetsani kuti oyembekeza anena zodandaula zawo zonse.Ndi ntchito yanu kukopa oyembekezera kuti achitepo kanthu mwachangu.Choncho sonkhanitsani nkhawa zonse zomwe mungathe musanayambe kupereka mayankho.Uku sikufunsa mafunso.Ndinu mlangizi wa woyembekezekayo ndipo mukufuna kumuthandiza kuti apange chisankho choyenera.
5. Funsani woyembekezerayo kuchitapo kanthu mwamsanga.Ziyembekezo zina zimasankha zochita mwachangu komanso modekha.Ena amalimbana ndi ndondomekoyi.Mukamaliza kuyankha mafunso ndi nkhawa, nthawi zonse funsani woyembekezera kuti achitepo kanthu nthawi yomweyo.
6. Khalani okonzeka kupereka chilimbikitso chowonjezereka.Kodi mumatani mukayankha mafunso onse ndi nkhawa zanu, ndikufunsa woyembekezera kuti asankhe zochita, ndipo akadali chete?Ngati woyembekezerayo sakugwirizana ndi yankho lomwe mwapereka kapena akuwonetsa nkhawa ina, yankhani. 
7. Tsekani zogulitsa lero.Osati sabata yamawa kapena mwezi wamawa.Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti mutseke kugulitsa lero?Mwapereka nthawi ndi mphamvu zanu kuti mukwaniritse chiyembekezocho.Mwafunsa funso lililonse ndipo mwapereka mawu aliwonse ofunikira kuti munthu asankhe mwanzeru.Chitani khama lomwelo popanga mawu/mafunso otsekera monga munachitira pokonzekera nkhani yanu yonse, ndipo mudzamva “inde” pafupipafupi.

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