Nawa malangizo asanu ndi limodzi omwe angakuthandizeni kuti zokambirana zanu ziyambe bwino:

1. Dziike nokha mu nsapato zanu.Musanakambirane ndi wina aliyense, zindikirani zomweinuchosowa - zosowa zanu zakuya ndi zikhulupiliro zanu.Kudzidziwa nokha kungakuthandizeni kuti musamangoganizira zosankha zomwe zimagwira ntchito kwa aliyense.Mukadziwa zambiri za zomwe mumakonda, mumatha kupanga zosankha zomwe zimakwaniritsa zosowa za aliyense.
2. Pangani "Njira Yabwino Kwambiri Pamgwirizano Wokambirana" (kapena BATNA).Simungathe kulamulira nthawi zonse zomwe zingakuchitikireni, koma mukhoza kusankha zomwe mungachite.Cholepheretsa chachikulu chopezera zomwe tikufuna m'moyo si chipani china.Chopinga chachikulu ndi ifeyo.Ife timafika mu njira yathu.Ganizirani zakutali kuti zikuthandizeni kupanga chisankho modekha komanso momveka bwino.Osachitapo kanthu mwachangu.Ngati mukumva kukhudzidwa musanayambe, panthawi komanso pambuyo potsutsa zovuta zilizonse, tengani kamphindi ndikuwona zomwe zikuchitika patali.
3. Sinthaninso chithunzi chanu.Anthu amene amaona kuti dzikoli ndi “ladani” adzaona ena ngati adani awo.Iwo omwe amakhulupirira kuti dziko lapansi ndi laubwenzi amakhala ndi mwayi wokhala ndi ena ngati ogwirizana nawo.Mukakambirana, mutha kusankha kuwona mwayi wothetsa vuto mogwirizana ndi gulu lina, kapena mutha kusankha kuwona nkhondo yopambana kapena kugonja.Sankhani kupanga zoyankhulana zanu kukhala zabwino.Kuimba mlandu ena kumapereka mphamvu ndipo kumapangitsa kuti zikhale zovuta kwambiri kuti mupambane.Pezani njira zogwirira ntchito ndi magulu ena.
4. Khalani muzoni.Kuika maganizo pa zimene zikuchitika masiku ano kumafuna kusiya zakale, kuphatikizapo zokumana nazo zoipa.Lekani kudandaula za zakale.Kusunga chakukhosi kumachotsa maganizo anu pa zimene zili zofunika kwambiri.Zakale ndi zakale.Kupita patsogolo ndikokomera aliyense.
5. Onetsani ulemu ngakhale simukuchitiridwa nkhanza.Ngati mdani wanu akugwiritsa ntchito mawu aukali, yesetsani kukhala odekha komanso aulemu, oleza mtima komanso olimbikira.Ganizirani zomwe zikuchitika ndikuzindikira zomwe mukufuna komanso momwe mungadziletsere kuti mukwaniritse zosowa zanu.
6. Yang'anani phindu logwirizana.Pamene inu ndi omwe mukukambirana nawo mufuna "kupambana-kupambana", mumachoka "kutengera kupereka."Kutenga kumatanthauza kuganizira zofuna zanu zokha.Mukapereka, mumapanga phindu kwa ena.Kupatsa sikutanthauza kutaya.

 

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